Your First-Ever Threesome: 18 Tips to Help You Perform Like a Boss

How to Have a Threesome: 18 Sexy Tips!

If you want to spice things up in the bedroom or are looking to explore your own sexuality, you may be contemplating adding a third person to the mix. But before you throw your hat (or underwear) in the ménage à trois, ring, here are a few tips on how to have a threesome — without things getting triply awkward.

How to Have a Threesome: Key Threesome Tips for Your Arsenal

1. Chemistry is a Must

A three-way is sure to be a bust if there’s one person who’s just not that into it. Consider spending time with your third before jumping into the bed to get a feel of the chemistry between the three of you.

2. Set Boundaries

One of the biggest threesome tips is setting clear boundaries before your threesome, say experts. “Discuss with your partner what you’re OK with and what’s off-limits,” says psychoanalyst Paul Joannides to Greatist.

3. Stay (Mostly) Sober

Let’s face it, having your first threesome is a little nerve-wracking — making it understandable to want to unwind first with a drink. But not only can being too drunk make it more difficult to perform, but booze also lowers inhibitions, which can mean breaking your pre-set boundaries.

4. Keep Jealousy in Check

For better or worse, having a three-way with your partner is going to teach you a lot about how you experience sexual jealousy. One of the best ways to control jealousy is to remember that this is a group experience to enhance your sex life.

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